After reading the stories here, Ive discovered that my man and I have a very, very good and exotic sex life.

Nothing too kinky, minor bondage, but where we really get it on is in the oral departmentboth of us.

I see tips on how to make your girl orgasm and thinkmy guy did that 5 years ago. SO, here are my helpful hints from Heloise.

For personal places only. The best way to make a woman come is by teasing her, but may I suggest you that do it this way.

My lover did this once and I was almost begging him to toy me. Start at the top of her head, look her in the eye and start caressing her face, kissing as you go.

When at the neck, dont grind into her, just lightly toy and tease her and insert a random finger into her cunt. Dry or not. Just a quick poke all the way to the pelvic bone and stop. Remove the finger. Pick a breast, any breast and begin to caress it with your hands telling her how you love the smell of her, the look on her face when she is in ecstasy etc. Start kissing her everywhere but the nipples. Tease her. Then attach to one and suckle it like you did your mommas. Take your handy digit and insert it again. This time wiggle the finger back and forth, move it in circles, and plunge it in, perhaps adding a finger. Stop. Find the center part of her chest, starting at the base of her neck and slowly toy, suck and kiss very tenderly until you reach the breasts. Stop. Sit back and spread her legs very, very wide and say, can I play here for awhile.

I love it when my man wants to play with my softness. He just looks at it and strokes it and tells me how pretty it is, how wonderful it smells yes, Im clean and proud of it, and then he goes right back to the tits. After giving each one its due the trail down south continues. Stop just before her personal place.

If shes like me, shell be arching her back trying to shove that thing in your face. But not so fastRoll over. HMMM whats next.

The kissing starts again from the base of the neck but this time, you finger her from behind.

Use the tall fellow, He gets better penetration.

No personal place, just straight finger playing.

If shes like me, shell arch are little soft place up and beg you to eat her from behind.

But he never does. He always kisses the entire length of my body first.

Then he comes back to the softness, where he just inserts his tongue.

for several minutes he tongue plays me.

Man let me tell you boys, there is nothing like a tongue play.

It is sensual and it is very romantic. Lick her soft place too. Maybe shell like it like I do.

My man always toys and sucks on my entire canal as we play for the long term. He starts at the top of my crack and toys long and slow, inserting into the soft place as well as the softness.

now, that is a good feeling let me tell you. I like some finger play, but not anal sex, but I love that tongue up my soft place I tell you. Then he stops. He turns me over and starts on my feet. Sucking each toe the back of my heel, the insides of my legs, the backs of my knees, the inside of my groin area where the private part meets the leg can take him literally 5-10 minutes of sucking and toying. Slowly inserting middle finger, perhaps two as he does this.

By now, Im just wasted and practically begging him to eat me. You know what I mean? By the time his mouth clamps down on the personal place, Im 2 seconds away from orgasm.

But, he continues to trace my love lips, inner and outer, tongue playing me all the while rubbing my personal place back and forth like a worry stone in his able hands. Finally gentlemen, when he latches on to the personal place. It is soft, then faster, then harder, then there are the teeth, like chattering teeth that just drives me insane. Think corn on the cob. Not hard, just softly chew on that rock hard personal place. STOP. Finish her off with a combination of sucking, toying and chewing. Putting a pillow under her hips helps too because you can really dive into that muff while doing that.

And that my dear fellows is how you eat softness.

Nice to know I with a man that does that right? Women on women.

I tried hubbys techniques on my first woman last night and she literally screamed when she came. Im not that loud, but I do moan so sexily. And let me tell you, I loved eating that little softness. Man, it was completely new to me, but the idea of doing to her what he has done to me for years made me so horny. poor thing, she just came and came and came.

Of course by the time she dove into my muff, I was so wet and practically came too soon. Luckily she took a hint from me and tongue played the shit out of me. Next she clamped on my personal place and didn't let go until I came more than once. It was cool, but I missed the thingy at the end. Another article on how I drive HIM wild when I have the time.